Stop Telling Yourself Straight Up Lies

Recently I was skimming through a magazine where I came across an article that stood out to me strongly. I was intrigued immediately, mainly by this specific sentence which was, ‘Some of the things you tell yourself are straight up lies.’

I paused thinking to myself about what I had just read. And how much  it was to my every day habits I constantly struggle withWhy do I constantly allow this voice to take over?? Why in the world do I keep letting it get the best of me time after time???? And yes I am talking about that pesky little voice in your head  ..The one that loves to criticize you..That one who says brutal, awful, mean things. ..Words which stab deep within hurting you. You tell yourself lies…which eventually ends up as your reality, things you believe to be true.

…For the longer you keep telling yourself the same thing over & over again, the easier it becomes to believe it. Makes sense right? You are constantly reinforcing that message in your mind…continually telling yourself you can’t… manifest & take over your life. And you know where this gets us??


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For I am not a statistic.

I am here for many reasons. But the most important one for me is to make a difference, whether it be big or small, by sharing with all of you my story. I want to show people even though I have been through hell and back after a very awful bad abusive relationship I had been in. I want to help those who think there is no hope and that they matter. For I am not just a statistic or a victim … I am a survivor. I believe everything happens for a reason, and also a firm believer that every one in due time will get ones karma they deserve. It will come …maybe not right away..or as fast as you would like…but it will. I truly believe some of our lowest points we experience in life often lead us to figuring out our real purpose in life. So for me it is getting people to talk about a topic everyone rather ignore then speak about…which has to stop.The whole stigma around abuse in general needs huge improvement. This cannot be something we ignore or push aside. We must open our eyes. We must stop looking away. And for myself I must spread my own personal story to help all of those who cannot. As well as finally not be ashamed of my own story rather be proud that I today can stand here letting everyone know I am not ashamed by my past. For I am not a victim, I am a survivor.